Little Man turned two not too long ago, and if the "Terrible Twos" really do exist, he is expressing them quite vibrantly.Since he was able to grasp the concept of time out (and even before), we've used the Jo Frost "Supernanny" approach to discipline.
Her approach is such:
Warning
Time Out-Explain why they are in time out and leave them for their age in minutes
Ask why they were in time out
Ask for an apology
Give hugs and kisses
But now, Little Man has gotten plain old sassy. I can't even tell you how many times I sit him in the timeout seat and he screams "Muma! Shut-Up!" (Yes, I know that he's heard this "somewhere" before), or I'm "Shhhhhh-ed", or he just sits there in defiance and screams. It's annoying. He's also started to get out of the chair, at which point I've been restarting the timer.
BUT.
He RARELY is this defiant to his father.
So I'm on the hunt for a new disciplinary action plan.
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Well, I for one am looking forward to reading what you thought of her book and if it helped you in raising your two year old. I also have a two year old and he started the terrible twos about at 14 months and is still going strong at 28 months.
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Lisa, this is common behavior for children. I don't know what it is about their father's but they rarely see the behavior that mom's do. Perverse little buggers!
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